Could you be addicted to inconsistent love?

romantic loveIn my younger days, I went through more than my share of relationships where the lows were so…..well, low, but the highs made life worth living.  I felt it was related to self-esteem issues but only today, recognize that this wasn’t it at all.

There’s a quirk of the brain’s reward circuit, a primitive neural network that is extremely sensitive to various rewards, two of which are love and sex.  The key is that the reward is unanticipated, which makes it particularly powerful and seductive to our brains.

Unpredictable rewards produce more dopamine release than predictable ones, which means more pleasure.

Read this fascinating New York Times article, I Heart Unpredictable Love.

About the author

Robin Barr is a business owner, animal lover, information and resources junkie, and a fan of innovation. She's also the inventor of award-winning Cold Sores Begone™, an instant preventative, and Canker Sores Begone™, a healing accelerator. A boomer and ENFP, Robin lives in Mission Viejo, Calif.


About Robin Barr

I was born in New Jersey, and when I was 3, my parents moved to Southern CA where I've lived since in Covina, San Fernando Valley, Los Angeles, Laguna Niguel and now Mission Viejo. I love dogs and cats and compassionate about all living creatures. What do I do for a living? I invent problem solvers. Have you seen Cold Sores Begone™ or Canker Sores Begone™ in health food stores or online? Mine. I like using stuff that won’t kill me later so both remedies are non-toxic, safe enough for small children, and topical (I don't swallow pills easily). If you want to prevent a cold sore from materializing when you feel the early tingle symptom, apply a few drops of Cold Sores Begone™. Done. If you're plagued with those painful ulcerations inside the mouth (canker sores), apply a few drops of Canker Sores Begone™a few times a day, and it should disappear in 2-3 days. I was elated when PREVENTION and NATURAL HEALTH magazines told the world my two products work as promised. Afterall, I'm just an accidental entrepreneur. Read the circumstances of how I came to be a small business owner here, scrolling down to the paragraph header that starts with "If you're curious...". Everything above it is a repeat of this bio.
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